UNPERFORMED
by Oksana
Stop living for approval.
Return to your authentic self &
live unapologetically
on your own terms.
Do you ever feel like your life seems “fine”… but something inside you isn’t?
You do what you’re supposed to.
You hold everything together.
You keep going, even when something inside you feels off.
From the outside, you look steady, capable, even successful.
But inside…
things feel different.
There’s no fulfilment, no joy, no spark —
and you can’t explain why.
You’re tired of being the strong one.
Tired of being the nice one.
Tired of pretending you’re okay when you’re not.
Tired of performing the version of you the world approves of…
instead of the one that actually feels like you.
If that sounds like you,
you’ve been living in Performance Mode —
a survival pattern your nervous system created to protect you.
It kept you safe once.
But now… it keeps you stuck.
Disconnected from your truth.
Unfulfilled no matter what you achieve.
Unable to create the life you’re working so hard to build.
Now imagine life feeling good on the inside too.
A life where you don’t have to perform.
Where you don’t have to pretend, prove, or please.
Where you finally feel confident in your own skin —
not because you’re trying harder, but because you’re finally being yourself. A life that feels calm, clear, and aligned — not because everything became magically perfect, but because you’re living from your own truth.
A life that feels real, grounded, and deeply yours —
not performed, not forced, not borrowed.
A life lived from the part of you that has always been there… the part that feels like home.
Your authentic self.
That’s the life Unperformed guides you back to.
What Early Readers Are Saying
“This book put words to things I’ve felt for years but never knew how to explain. Reading it felt reassuring and hopeful.”
Nataliya
Offline Business Owner
“The concept of Performance Mode hit me hard. It explained so much about my behaviour and made me feel a lot less wrong for the way I’ve been living."
Leo
Wellness and Yoga coach
Inside the free chapter, you’ll learn:
Why your life feels heavy, pressured, or ‘off’ even when nothing is wrong.
How living for others’ approval quietly shaped your identity — and why you haven’t been able to switch it off.
Why your nervous system holds the key to every transformation your mind has been begging for.
Why you keep repeating the same patterns — no matter how self-aware or disciplined you are.
Why “doing the work” hasn’t worked — and why your failed attempts were never failures.
Why your mind wants change but your body pulls you back to the familiar.
The real first step to creating the life you dream of — and why it begins with understanding yourself, not fixing yourself.
This is for you if:
You’re self-aware but stuck in emotional loops you thought you’d outgrown.
You people-please, stay “fine” on the outside, and keep going even when you’re drained.
Your life looks good on the outside but feels disconnected inside.
You crave peace, presence, authenticity, and inner freedom.
You want to feel change in your body — not just understand it with your mind.
A Message From
Oksana
I wrote this book for you to finally understand one thing:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
You are not broken.
You are not lazy.
You are not failing.
You’ve simply become disconnected from your truth —
from the real you beneath the pressure and the performance.
Unperformed will guide you back to that truth.
Back to yourself.
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