HI, I’m

Oksana

And I’m here to help you regulate your nervous system and return to the woman you were always meant to be.

I’m so happy you’re here.

Because if you’re reading this, it means we have something in common—something bigger than just this moment.

Maybe you’ve felt it before… that quiet but unshakable knowing that you’re meant for more.

Not in an overachieving, ‘do more, be more’ kind of way—but in a way that speaks to the deepest part of you.

The part that knows you’re not here to settle.

The part that dreams of a life where success doesn’t just look good on the outside but feels expansive, fulfilling, and deeply aligned on the inside.

That’s the journey I’ve been on too.

And if you’re here, I have a feeling it’s yours as well.

Let me tell you my story.

My Life Looked Perfect on the Outside —

But Inside, I Felt Empty

For a long time, my life looked good from the outside.

I worked hard, achieved big corporate milestones, owned beautiful things, and lived what many would call a “comfortable life.” But inside, it didn’t feel comfortable at all.

It felt empty.

No matter what I accomplished, one question kept echoing:

“Is this it? All that effort for this?”

On paper, I had everything I thought I wanted.

In reality, none of it brought true fulfillment.

In search of meaning, I trained as a yoga teacher while still working in corporate.

The experience was beautiful —

but the emptiness stayed.

So I kept searching.

I tried being the workaholic.

Then the party girl.

Then the businesswoman.

But no matter what role I stepped into, none of them made me feel whole.

Eventually, I stepped away from everything and took a long break.

For the first time, I felt a faint connection to myself — a spark.

It wasn’t strong, but it was enough for my soul to finally speak.

And when I listened, I realised what she’d been whispering all along:

she wanted to empower others to live on their own terms —

not by their circumstances, not by expectations, not by fear.

Exactly how I'd been trying to live my entire life, for as long as I can remember.

So I became a mindset coach — something that felt deeply aligned at first.

But because my connection to my true self was still fragile, I quickly lost my way again.

I began following client attraction formulas and strategies that didn’t feel true to me.

I told myself, “If it works for others, it will work for me.”

But it didn’t.

Instead of feeling free,

I felt even more trapped —

this time inside a life I thought I had consciously created.

After many months of forcing and pretending I was “fine,”

my body gave up before I did.

It collapsed.

Even simple things — like making tea or answering a message — felt impossible.

I was functioning at maybe 5%.

And when those 5% ran out, I needed to sleep.

In that collapse, when my body was barely mobile,

I finally saw the truth:

I had never been actually living for myself.

The unconscious intention behind almost everything I did

was an attempt to prove I was worthy —

to impress someone who had never been watching.

I truly believed no one would love me if I showed weakness,

so I was always “fine.”

I never truly lived my life;

I performed it.

And that lifelong self-betrayal finally caught up with me.

The realisation was painful beyond words —

but it was also the turning point.

Because once I saw how deeply I’d abandoned myself,

I knew I could never live that way again.

Healing began slowly.

Learning to listen to my body.

Learning to rest.

Learning to trust myself again.

Learning to let my soul lead.

Learning to live for myself, not as a performance.

This journey changed everything.

I realised that true transformation isn’t about becoming a “better” version of myself —

it’s about remembering who I was before the world told me to be better.

My Mission Now.

The moment I truly met my authentic self was the moment

I met my soul.

Since then, she has been my quiet guide —

leading me toward one mission:

to help others strong self-aware women like myself reconnect with their true self, so they can stop performing their lives

and finally live them.

Today, I guide women through that same journey of reconnection:

  • from survival mode to soul mode,

  • from performance to presence,

  • from numbness to aliveness,

  • from “fine” to fully themselves.

I can’t wait for you to (re)meet your soul too.